Can somebody give me advice on how to get over my boyfriend?

Ok so I've been dating this guy for a little over 3 years, we have a child whose going to be one in December. Well I've basically came to the realization that me and him are never going to work out. We argue about everything. So I kind of just want us to go our separate ways, but it seems so hard because I do love him and I don't want to leave him but I know we are not going to work out. So does anybody have any advice on how to get over him? Can somebody give me advice on how to get over my boyfriend?
im not an expert in this i just wanted to say something to jimmy who posted a few posts above this one, IF THE BABY IS GONNA BE ONE IN DECEMBER THEY ALREADY HAD IT SMART ONE!Can somebody give me advice on how to get over my boyfriend?
time is the only thing that works. especially with some much history. im sorry that its not working out i know how painful it can be.
Make a list of reasons why he's not a good fit for you. Every time you think you fantasize about being together, remind yourself of those reasons.





Now, make a list of qualities that you need in a future partner. Every day, think of these reasons--never forget that you need someone who respects you and knows that arguing is not the answer.





Obviously, the fact that you have a child together bonds you two together forever. It'll be a long process, but eventually you'll come to see him as a former lover, and not a perfect fit. Somebody is out there for you. The most important thing now is to remain on good enough terms for your child's sake. I'm sure you'll make it through. =)
The most important person in all of this is the child, and everything should be done to make sure that things remain as near as normal as possible to reduce the child's trauma.


Getting over someone is no where near as easy as it sounds. There's things like the financial side to sort out, where you are going to live, who has custody, and access for the other partner, then of course there is sorting out maintenance for the child.


After all this is sorted, comes the problem of the parents. They need to work together to ensure that the child has the best possible life, and, if the break up has been anything less than amicable, this is not always easy, quite simply because one of the partners (usually the one with custody) can make it bloody awkward for the other.


What you have to remember is that you were adult enough tho fall in love, and create a wonderful child between you. Now you need the same adult response to ensure everything is best for the child, after all, he, or she, should come first, and despite whatever happens in the future, the little one will always be there to remind each of you of their former partner.


Good luck to you both, that you can sensibly sort things out, and that the child has 2 wonderful parents, who even though they are not together anymore, can give him, or her, the best upbringing possible.
Try to work it out. Yall have a Baby on the way
dont break up wiht him


you have a kid and that would only make it worse for the kid


just try to get along with him and talk to him about how you feel and compromise
u can still be frends n ur gonna have to see him sometimes so just end it on a good note like we both kno this isnt gonna work out but i want us to be frends n on good terms for the sake of our child. i think it will work out that way best.





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why did you waste 3 yrs on someone who wont commit?





just keep on living.....start dating in 60 days.....after 1 yr if the man doesnt propose dont waste more time on him....even if he doesnt love you within 30 days, dont waste more time...